Flirting Skills Test
This test checks how well you flirt. It looks at your body language, humor, and confidence. Good flirting is about making others feel good.
Disclaimer: These tests are designed for adults and are not intended to be diagnostic.
Flirting at a Glance
- Flirting is supposed to be fun, not serious.
- It is mostly about what you do, not what you say.
- Confidence is the most attractive trait.
Scientific Basis & Methodology
This test uses ideas from social psychology. Albert Mehrabian showed that 93% of communication is non-verbal. We look at:
- Body Language: How you stand and move.
- Empathy: Reading the other person’s mood.
- Playfulness: Keeping things light and happy.
What Is Flirting?
Flirting is a way to show interest without saying it directly. It is a social game. It uses smiles, eyes, and tone of voice to build a connection.
The 3 Golden Rules of Flirting
- Eye Contact: Look at them, then look away. It creates a spark.
- Be Playful: Teasing is fun. Do not be too serious.
- Check Consent: Make sure they are smiling back. If not, stop.
Average Flirting Scores
- Beginners: 40-50
- Active Daters: 60-75
- Naturals: 85+
The Assessment
Answer honestly to get the most accurate result. There are no right or wrong answers.
1.I smile when I like someone.
2.I am not afraid to make eye contact.
3.I can tell if someone likes me back.
4.I use humor to break the ice.
5.I give compliments easily.
6.I know when to touch someone generally.
7.I ask open questions to keep them talking.
8.I am confident in my body language.
9.I tease others in a fun way.
10.I listen more than I talk on dates.
11.I am not scared of rejection.
12.I match their energy level.
13.I know how to end a conversation smoothly.
14.I notice small details about them.
15.I lean in when they speak.
16.I behave like myself.
17.I respect their personal space.
18.I make them laugh often.
19.I check if they are comfortable.
20.I am clear about my interest.
Analysis Locked
Complete the 20-question assessment above to unlock your personalized score and detailed breakdown.
What Your Flirting Score Means
Your score tells you which style you use most. There is no bad style, just different ways to connect.
0-40: The Shy Observer
You wait for others to move first. This is safe, but you might miss out. Try to make eye contact one extra time today.
41-70: The Friendly Spark
You are warm and nice. People like you. But they might think you just want to be friends. Try to touch their arm briefly when you laugh.
71-100: The Magnetic Charmer
You know exactly what to do. You make people feel special and excited. Use your power kindly!
Can You Improve Flirting?
Yes! Flirting is a skill. You can learn it. Start with these:
- Smile with your eyes (Duchenne smile).
- Listen, do not just wait to talk.
- Use open body language. Uncross your arms.
- Give a genuine compliment.
Who Should Take This Test?
- Single people looking for dates.
- People who feel shy.
- Anyone who wants more charm.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is flirting bad?+
No! Dealing with people should be fun. Flirting is just being playful and nice.
Can I flirt if I am shy?+
Yes. Shy flirting is cute. A small smile or looking away can be very charming.
How do I know if they are flirting back?+
Watch their eyes. If they look at you a lot and smile, they probably like you.
Is this test accurate?+
It gives you a good idea of your style. But you know yourself best. Use it to learn.
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